Stop Grading Guesswork: Teach AI to Say “I Don’t Know”

AI isn’t hallucinating by accident, it’s bluffing because we told it to. If your metrics punish “I don’t know,” don’t be shocked when your chatbot lies with a smile.
The real danger in AI isn’t raw power, it’s misplaced incentives. A new paper by OpenAI makes it clear that language models hallucinate not because they’re broken, but because our benchmarks reward bluffing over honesty.
Accuracy-only leaderboards push models to guess rather than admit uncertainty, and in doing so, we’ve trained them to lie confidently. Think of a student who knows that leaving an exam question blank guarantees zero, but guessing at least gives a shot at points. The result? Systems that sound convincing, but sometimes fabricate.
This isn’t about making models smarter with more data. It’s about changing the rules of the game. Hallucinations are the predictable outcome of teaching AI to optimize for scores that value luck over truth. The fix is deceptively simple: penalize confident errors more than abstentions, and give credit for calibrated uncertainty.
In my new book Now What? How to Ride the Tsunami of Change, I argue for building systems that protect curiosity while demanding evidence. That means rewarding transparency, designing for verification, and recognizing the cost of overconfidence.
In practice, it could look like this: redefine KPIs to account for error severity, make “I don’t know” a feature not a failure, and trace data lineage so teams can understand why answers shift.
The best leaders I know move fast not by being certain, but by being calibrated. So the question is: will you keep celebrating lucky guesses, or will you reward systems, and people, that have the courage to say “I don’t know”?
Read the full article on OpenAI.
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